“Not the Way It’s Supposed to Be”

12/9/21

Category: Poetry, Suffering

This poem was inspired by Cornelius Plantinga’s book Not the Way It’s Supposed to Be and the lyrics to Cake’s song “Rock ‘n’ Roll Lifestyle.”

 

Bellyful.

 

Passive-aggressive bomb

Or self-medicated napalm?

 

The neglect of this rhyme

Revives the justification of your dime

 

Spent on supersized fries

While kids in the Congo

Go without a belly full.

 

The shorter the wick

The taller the tale of the explosion—

Empty promises in elephantine parcels

Of entrapment called sin.

 

You belie,

Binging Costco-sized pies

Of debauchery and winsome excuses

As you pull out to win

 

Or more like

To erode the character within.

 

Your intestines

Melt your senses away.

 

Time becomes its own prison.

 

So let’s reverse the curse

With role reversals

That set up the stage

For dress rehearsals—

Of empathy.

 

You think your popularity

Purchases your freedom.

 

Votes are bought,

People are sold

Like the transatlantic slave-trade of old,

Triangulating tobacco, spiced-rum,

And black souls.

 

What no one sees,

What you hate to admit to yourself

When you’re all alone,

Strung out,

Scratching where there’s no itch:

 

Dying favors excess;

The Angel of Death seduces draconian

Dynasties, syndicates, tycoons, cartels,

The rich and the rest.

 

Addicts of the world, unite!

Reclaim your identity!

Stand up and fight!

 

Insatiability is the opiate of the masses.

 

If you can’t see it

Perhaps Gluttony prescribed your glasses.

 

Rebel against your master,

Who holds you in chains

With a platinum label—

A “rockin’ roll lifestyle”—

Numbing your pains,

 

Where authenticity wears no crown,

Where peace can only be found

In a snow-globe turned upside down.

 

The Entitled,

The Elite,

Whose motives are anything but discreet,

Hedonistic pigs wearing powdered-wigs

Of prosperity,

Today’s pragmatic pimps

 

Behind masks that hide their jowls

And scandalous snouts.

 

We call them plastic surgeons

With a postdoc degree in superficiality

And a scalpel of vanity

Used with privileged precision.

 

What about Babylon’s destruction?

And King Nebuchadnezzar’s liposuction—

Of the brain?

 

Bovine was his name.

A cow, his new identity.

 

Seven years to grow a new stomach

And lose his insanity.

 

Who’re you really hurting?

 

It’s up to you:

Those who use you

Can’t abuse you

If you plug-up the hole

Of hopelessness

That ensues you.

 

Stick your finger inside.

Feel around—

A universe of pretension and pride.

 

Pull out the poison,

The evil that touched you,

Molded you,

Enabled you,

And scolded you

When you were young.

 

The heart and stomach

Are often mistaken:

 

One fights for hope

And the other for hype

When nerves are shaken.

 

Don’t confuse passion

With speaking dirty

 

Or rebellion with excess,

 

Which society calls “success”—

A lie that grabs you by the throat

As you choke out your last breath:

“This is ‘not the way it’s supposed to be.’ ”

 

The struggle for survival proves it.

 

Let’s call it what it is—distortion,

“The spoiling of shalom,”

 

A corporate drone,

Knowing your every move

And mischievous deed

To sell you what you don’t need:

 

White powder on the bathroom counter

And a flipped-up skirt with a scarlet letter.

 

Tide can’t erase that stain

Or make it better.

 

You might be able to hide it

With an Argyle sweater

Tied around your waist

 

But who’re you kiddin’

You’re still selling your body

To the highest bidder.

 

Once is too much

And 24 ain’t enough.

 

You live with a paradox—

 

Checkin’ every box off

Your Christmas list is rough

And the more afraid you are

The more you act tough.

 

Life with the wrong surplus

Shines with LED lights on automatic timers.

Life is more than getting high

In order to get by.

 

A rebel without a cause

Is no rebel but a grown juvenile,

Living in denial,

 

Trending torn Levi’s and a leather jacket,

 

Raising hell for an applause

He sought but couldn’t find

In his father’s fastidious eyes.

 

Was it any surprise?

His father’s father

Left him alone in wet Pampers.

 

Baby wailed through the night

Searching for the soothing sound

Of his own name

 

Until wailing subsided

To crying;

Crying subsided

To lying;

And lying subsided to pretending,

Pretending without trying.

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Myriam Delagneau
Myriam Delagneau
2 years ago

I like it!! It keeps me thinking and analyzing life now days. ‍♀️

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